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Amanda
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« on: February 20, 2011, 07:24:40 PM »

Lots of people make the decision to abort deformed fetuses every year. As a deformed/disabled person, I find this very disturbing. The argument is that the deformed/disabled person will have a lower quality of life, will be dependent on other people, will be a burden on their parents, etc. Therefore, it is supposedly in the best interest of the parents AND the fetus to just kill it. I can't wrap my mind about that. There seems to be a very thin line between this and, say, ethnic cleansing.

From a scientific standpoint, I believe that the human race would be better off without me. I'm going on my 6th surgery this summer to correct all of my genetic deformities. I use up a lot of insurance money. I get in the way of healthy people. I don't know if it's a good idea for me to have children because I can pass on my deformities and further weaken the gene pool.

However, my life still has a purpose. Lots of disabled people have a purpose. There are some people who seem like they may have no purpose at all (such as people who have no independence whatsoever, cannot communicate, are bed-bound, etc.), and some people seem to think they would have been better off dead. I have to wonder if we are really looking at them through God's eyes.

My guess is that their purpose is to teach us compassion. Compassion is severely lacking among many "normal" people, even those of the religious variety. I won't go into my experiences as a disabled person, because to me nothing is more revolting than people selectively breeding their own children. We Americans are disgusted by the Chinese who openly practice sexism by killing off baby girls, since having a baby boy brings honor to the family. We are revolted when a baby is aborted because it is from interracial parents. I can't understand why it is acceptable, even desirable, to abort a child who will be born deformed.

Despite our barbaric tendency to kill them off, God still allows disabled and deformed people to be born. Why? I really think one reason is to teach the rest of us to be compassionate.
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« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2011, 08:00:17 AM »

Thanks for your insight on this issue.  It is a valid thought and in some religions you are correct that we need to be able to show compassion. 

"I get in the way of healthy people. I don't know if it's a good idea for me to have children because I can pass on my deformities and further weaken the gene pool."

I believe this statement is the core of the debate.  What mother wants to do harm to her child or feel the agony of watching them suffer all their lives.  This is a valid question  that every woman who gets pregnant has to answer emotionally and spiritually.

Which brings us to chicken and the egg analogy.  Do we love the mother who has to make this extremely difficult decision or do we love the child even more and stop loving the mother?  Or can we love both of them equally, the mother with compassion knowing that her child will not survive and she will have to live emotionally with the decision she made and to the unborn as a representative of future lives and as a symbol of compassion that humans need to show toward each other in both life and death.  To appreciate life, for no one knows when your life will end, it can 100 years or just after conception. This is the lesson of the baby, for humans to know to appreciate life for it is fragile and unpredictable and to be cherished for as long as one has it. Without these children as a reminder humans would get cynical and unappreciative of the value of children.
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« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2011, 12:22:54 PM »

This has been a long debated question in bioethics. Personally, I think the strongest case made against selective abortion is the effect the procedure  has on disabled persons. It's understandable that those with disabilities would feel indignant or even resentful toward those who would even think to abort a child simply because of the potential for disability.

However, indignation is only reasonably available to those who believe that the fetus is a person, or that there should be some sort of reverence for the potential of personhood.


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